About Me

I’m Gillian

Dominatrix & Photographer

I’m not one for strict definitions. I move between worlds, between cities, between lives. Some people need clear boxes: hard or soft, structured or wild, artist or guide. But life isn’t like that. It’s all of it at once. And why should we have to choose?

Berlin has always made space for that. It’s the city where you don’t have to explain yourself. Where who you are today is enough. This kind of freedom isn’t tied to one place … it exists in the spaces we create, in the people we meet, in the energy that sparks when curiosity meets courage. I seek those moments in a dimly lit bar in Paris, in a private playroom in London, in the quiet of a hotel suite where boundaries dissolve and something unexpected takes shape. I don’t just belong to one city. I belong to movement, to connection, to the art of exploration.

My work is about presence. I care about intensity and desire. The silent pull between two people is real. What I do isn’t just about control, at least not in the way you might think. I’m fascinated by people. By the way they respond to each other, the tension between closeness and distance, the moments in between. Where everything is felt but nothing is said. It’s about play. About surrender and resistance. About teasing the edges of fear and pleasure until they blur into something deliciously electric.

Both play and photography do that in their own way. There’s an art to that. A rhythm. A push and pull. As a Dominatrix, I come close, guiding you through intensity. As a photographer, I hold space and remain at a professional distance: watching, waiting, capturing what unfolds.

It’s about creating something that you can still feel long after it’s over. A resonance. An experience. A memory that stays under your skin. Because if we’re here, if we’re alive, why not say yes to every thrill?